What if a teacher says ‘no’ to a request?
There will be times when an accommodation cannot be simply implemented. Perhaps you need extra time on a test, and the teacher has to leave for a meeting. We suggest using an additional strategy Alt+CM+Leave. This acronym takes its inspiration from the keyboard commands: Alt+Ctrl+Del, which can be used to troubleshoot computer problems. Follow Alt+CM+Leave in situations where there might be a problem or conflict.
Alt+CM+Leave (3 Steps to Resolving Conflict)
Alt– Think of an alternate solution (Find and suggest an alternate solution or choice to meet everyone’s needs. In the example above, would it work for you to have extra time and finish your test in a resource room under the supervision of another teacher?)
CM– Suggest you both meet with your Case Manager if stuck (If an alternate solution cannot be found or if a teacher is refusing to provide an accommodation, avoid conflict escalation and suggest that you meet with your Case Manager to create a plan. It is rare that a teacher will not help, but know that your Case Manager is your advocate and can support you to find a solution).
Leave– Leave the conversation (It’s okay to exit the conversation gracefully and know that you can have your Case Manager or parents support you later).
Task #2: Some students might need practice learning this strategy. Role-playing can be a good way to develop communication skills. Complete role-playing activity #3 in 4.2_ Accommodations Role-Playing Cards. Practice the role-playing situations with a friend, classmate, teacher, or parent. Pay particular attention to the way in which the I-ASK and ALT+CM+ Leave strategy is used in each role-play.
Continue on to Task 3.3
Self-Advocacy in High School 